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How do I break up with a gal pal?
Asked by: DorisDay  |   Topic: J+J Out and About

I need to break up with my gal pal but I have no idea how to do it gently. Does anyone have any ideas about how to X my soon to be x-gal pal?
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Response by: Jacks and Jills    Mar 26, 02:31:04 pm      ononononon Login to vote!

Breaking up is hard to do....even harder with a friend than love interest. Are you sure there is nothing left to salvage from any part of the relationship? DO you just need to set your boundaries for what is acceptible or is there nothing redeeming left?

If it's unforgiveable, or completely unhealthy, then it's time to ditch that diva.

Treat the process like a love break-up, gently with honesty. What is it that is incompatible about the relationship? Why do you need the break-up? Can you talk about needing more space, more time, needing to focus on other priorities right now, not having the time, energy, or space for their drama-filled BS?

Like ripping off a band-aid. It will hurt most to just think about it, and get through that one conversation and then you will just have the awkwardness over and done with. Unless they are a stalker psycho.

Response by: Pamela N Red    May 09, 02:43:05 pm      ononononon Login to vote!

I had a friend I loved to death but she could be so negative and rude too. I finally decided to move on and just kept being "busy". I know that is the coward's way out but it worked for me.  


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